My actual problem is with the sons of India , especially the 2 learned men in that documentary ,the well read ,highly educated defence lawyers. I always thought education made us human more sensible, it teaches us to differentiate between the right and wrong,but here what I saw was totally different . What I heard these lawyers talk shocked me so much that now I wonder what change are we looking for when our learned people have such opinion about woman, what those culprits said didn't affect me much ,for ,such talks is expected from an illiterate man who has been bought up in totally different world ,maybe he has always seen a woman in his family treated badly so he has learnt what he saw , but I wonder what was the circumstances in the house of these so called educated men that even education couldn't make them a human being ,they still remained a MAN.....when Mr Singh claimed he would burn his daughter if she was seen with stranger roaming around at nite, it really made me wonder , what type of environment is he bringing up his daughter ? My heart goes out to her. During the debate he said a good character person is the one who respects his elders , so is he telling us if these rapist treat their parents with respect than they are people with good character who just went astray that too because of a woman. It was shocking to learn about their right and wrong which in my opinion is sooo very wrong .This documentary made me think how many educated men in our country maybe having this same view as these lawyers. This video was actually an eye opener where I learnt about our educated man's mentality. By banning the video what are we going to achieve , instead of banning it , shouldn't we be thinking of finding a solution for this issue. But instead we hear everywhere is how bad is BBC work ethics , how badly india is shown, etc . But I would like to know , what india is going to do abt this issue ? What we the people want?
Well what I would like to do is educate these educated men more, first of all we women don't want to be flowers, nor mithai ka dabba, nor diamonds , please stop treating us like helpless commodity. Please stop thinking man's job is to protect women .Please do us a favour and resign from that post. The only favour that a man can do for a woman is by letting her be and not give us so much unnecessary attention seriously by just doing this you will be solving 90 % of woman's problems, and the other 10% we are strong enough to handle that. Also we women need to educate ourselves that by treating man like god we are just creating more monsters. We are causing more problems for ourselves by behaving helpless . Our culture says women is Shakti ,it's time to show them that. Its time to show few of these Men who believe India has a beautiful culture ,where women is nothing , that this countries culture is beautiful only because of the strong woman who held it together. Our country will only change to better when ever person believes they are equal in every way. When man and woman stand together as equal only then we will be a powerful country. When that happens we all can dil se say "India is my country and I am proud of it". But right now it's going to be like what my friend says " I love my country ,but I am not proud of it".
