Women really who???

    " Hai meri chamak chalo". " hi sweetie." " hi sexy ." Are some of lewd comments we women have heard sometime or other hmmmm not sometime actually all the time. Honestly what do these men who pass such remarks think ,do they think they are Salman or Shahrukh that they will say such things and women will give them a shy look and come running to them.... Come on people there is difference between reel life and real life . Women hate such comments seriously it boils our blood . Believe me even Katrina or Kareena also will find these comments insulting.

     Today's headlines as usual was about a woman molested by 3 men. She had to go  to 4 different police station to just register her FIR. Can you imagine what that woman must have gone through , and to make matters worst our law enforcers made her go through her nightmare for 9 hours before they registered her FIR ,she had to repeat the same experience again and again with every hawaldar inspector and driver too. That was not the end of her plight she was asked why she was dressed in shorts ,why was she out so late at night ,what was she doing with a boy. She was molested again and again not physically but emotionally and mentally in the police station.How will that women ever feel secured ,how will she ever trust our law system. Why should she trust our law system who treated her more like a culprit than a victim. But hats off to this women, she relived her nightmare again and again but made sure she lodged the FIR. She didn't give up. But why did she have to go through all this ,why is the law so different for women. We live in a democratic country where all are equal or did we miss the small writing which say democracy applies for human , and women don't come under this catogery. We women have a special rule book which has many do not's..... Like do not wear short clothes, do not look pretty, do not smile, do not laugh ,do not do this  do not do that,  coz there is some pervert who will be eyeing you somewhere or other. Honestly does a pervert care if a woman is wearing a short dress or is fully covered ,does it matter to him if she is smiling or crying, does it matter if she is few months old or a 100 year old ,for that person she is just a sex object who has a been given a rule book by our society which she has to follow ......

   Somehow women's silence has become her biggest weakness. Women please stop being silent stop taking such remark with silence ,our silence is just encouraging such people to increase in number. Let's be the change we want to see. Mothers before we teach our children ABC and 1,2,3 let's teach them to respect our daughters ,teach them to treat a girl like a human who has feelings and is very much alive . Teach our girls to have a voice ,tell her ,her words are important she is important and she should learn to respect other girls also because nothing can be worst than a women treating other women with disrespect. 

   Women do not want to be treated superior she wants to be treated equal treated with same respect you expect others to give you. She does not want to be your mother ,sister or daughter to feel safe in our city she wants her individuality her identity and respect for who she is. It's high time women we all say " Enough is Enough" ab sach main bas.......